Nov
04
grief, gratitude, and turning 40
8 min read
essays
reflection pieces & personal essays
Nov
01
november 2025: on everything being so goddamn hard
i really don't want you to stop caring. i want you to keep your heart soft. and that means that sometimes, you have to let yourself feel the hard thing instead of rushing to solve it.
12 min read
Oct
19
is "intermediate tarot" just having inside jokes with your cards?
when you get to know the cards themselves as intersecting correspondences and heartbeats of a story, as moments that connect to experiences you've had in your own life — then you will gain a much deeper and richer perspective on what the cards are actually communicating.
10 min read
Oct
01
october 2025: ten of pentacles // building ourselves home
what happens when you do something regularly, until it's such a regular part of your world that you forgot what your life was like without it?
10 min read
Sep
28
rebellion for rule-followers
your rebellion might not look like chaining your body to a bulldozer — but that doesn't mean that it isn't still critically important.
8 min read
Sep
01
september 2025: nine of pentacles // harvest & hard work
the nine of pentacles isn't only for times of plenty, but also times of scarcity — and this, too, is sacred. this, too, is part of the earth cycle.
11 min read
Aug
17
the hermit & creative devotion
what are you growing with? what is your next chapter? how is your devotion serving as a tether, a compass, a guiding light for your personal transformations and discoveries?
9 min read
Aug
01
august 2025: eight of pentacles // on tending & devotions
being able to tap into this energy, this discipline, is a beautiful and powerful thing. but it's also a survival tactic, a way of enduring and continuing to show up even when hope is not our driving force.
11 min read
Jul
01
july 2025: seven of pentacles // remembering the roots
maybe this card, this month, is inviting you to stop framing your needs as discretionary, and your wants as frivolous. maybe this is a chance for you to own your resourcing needs, so that you can actually fulfill them.
14 min read
Jun
07
the power of a good question
when we're brave enough to look at what's underneath a question, to question the premise and examine the foundations and poke at the assumptions, we often find something completely different, and utterly true, at the core.
10 min read