december 2025: on resting & changing
we all deserve rest. yes, even me, and yes, even if the dishes still need to be done.
compassion vs. perfection
y'all, life is hard enough. you don't have to use tarot to punish yourself.
reading tarot for yourself is hard, actually
you're not "doing it wrong" — it's just hard.
on reflection work that doesn't suck
there is truth in honest reflection, and power in that truth.
tarot spreads for hard things
hello, friends. earlier this month i shared an essay on how everything is so goddamn hard right now — and then
november 2025: spreads for all
hello, friends. before i share this month's new tarot spreads with you, this email is also the last
november 2025: on everything being so goddamn hard
i really don't want you to stop caring. i want you to keep your heart soft. and that means that sometimes, you have to let yourself feel the hard thing instead of rushing to solve it.
why grief work matters — and how tarot can help
with the tarot as our guide, we can meet at the mouth of the river (styx), and begin to slowly consider how we want to proceed.