october 2026 spreads for all
things like music, movement, meditation, and yes, even mayhem can all help us stay connected to the things that matter to us, the things that keep us human, the things that keep us alive.
so you're still thinking about river styx — last call!
i promise you that grief work can make all that heaviness feel easier to bear. i promise you that grief work will shift the way you think about the future. and i promise you that grief work can help you feel more alive, more active, and more excited in your daily life.
october 2026's numerology
where one is independent, two is relational. where one is open to anything, two is willing to close doors. where one is bold and bright, two is more subtle, honoring what lives in the shadows.
"what if i'm also grieving something personal?"
your personal grief is not something you have to check at the door for river styx.
so grief work seems pretty exhausting
when we can recognize why we're so tired, when we can clock that our grief needs some extra care on certain days, when we can direct our grief into activities and efforts that make real change, things start to feel easier, lighter, more hopeful.
so you wanna use tarot to explore emotions & grief
whether we're navigating grief or another emotional experience, the tarot can serve as an incredible companion for building a relationship with those emotions — learning to be with them, tend to them, and honor all that they have to teach us.
don't believe me? let's try it out together, right now.
nine of cups // creative prompts
what i share here is just my own perspective on the tarot — you get to make your own path, your own way, your own meanings. what does the nine of cups mean to you, for you, with you?
so you're scared of how deep your grief goes
grief work doesn't have to mean just diving headfirst into an abyss so deep you'll never escape. it means learning how to float, and how to flow.
let me show you.
so you feel guilty calling it grief
while your grief might feel heavy, exhausting, miserable to manage, and entirely overwhelming, it is also a sign that you still care, that you haven't tuned it all out, that your heart is still soft enough to be broken.